Last week we read about lifelong donors and the importance of cultivating such a donor base. This week, we continue the conversation with resident resource specialist, Ann Gladwin about relationships and the secret to building them:
I had a nice chat with Marshall Howard the other day. His book “Let’s Have Lunch Together” has been instrumental in my take on fundraising–though Mr. Howard still had to set me straight about the story. The story is me, not the mission of the organization. That’s hard for most of us to grasp; we want to extol the virtues of our nonprofit’s impact on the community: Look at the great strides we’re making… the number of people served! According to Mr. Howard, this ‘story’ might rate a 6 out of 10–what about the remaining 4?
I started to understand that it’s my relationship to the person I’m asking for support that is crucial. Do they connect with the mission? Perhaps, but it’s the fact that I asked them that is important. And they are responding to me; I can ask a stranger for a donation to my cause, but I’m not likely to get results no matter for what I’m asking. Ask someone I know for support? Much more likely.
Wow – that’s powerful!
Real Life Example
Mark Zuckerberg’s gift to Newark, New Jersey public schools serves as a real life example for this theory.
Mr. Zuckerberg, 26, who grew up in Westchester County and now lives in California, has no particular connection to Newark. But in July, he and Mr. Booker met at a conference and began a continuing conversation about the mayor’s plans for the city, according to people familiar with their relationship.
From The New York Times
There’s that key word again, relationship. I would treat it as a synonym for success.
Another proponent of relationship building is Terry Axelrod, founder of Benevon (and guest writer on our blog last week). She will present a Get Connected workshop for NEW in Detroit on Wednesday, April 27 (9am-10:30am). This “Relationship Building for Fundraising” is yours to attend for free. Sign up today!
Also visit Marshall Howard.com to find a multitude of free resources, including his blog. Get a fresh look at a tried and true method for bringing people into your organization.
Ann Gladwin is Resource Specialist for Nonprofit Enterprise at Work at our Ann Arbor office. Feel free to contact Ann regarding any of the advice, tools or service mentioned in this post by email at firstname.lastname@example.org or via phone at 734-998-0160 ext. 218.
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